These standards apply to all members using Kilele for social engagements and event companionship. They exist to protect privacy, set clear boundaries, and maintain a trusted, verified community.

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1) Scope and intent

This platform supports discreet social coordination—such as attending events, dinners, cultural outings, and professional/social functions—within a privacy-first, consent-led framework.

The platform does not allow:

• Any request, offer, or implication of sexual services

• Exploitative arrangements, coercion, or “pay-for-intimacy” framing

• Illegal activity of any kind

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2) Profile standards (how you present yourself)

Profiles must be truthful, respectful, and specific.

Required

• Accurate name (or approved display name), age, and location area

• Clear, recent photos that represent you (no misleading edits)

• A professional, non-explicit bio describing:

  • Social style (e.g., calm, outgoing, cultured, conversational)

  • Preferred engagement types (e.g., networking events, dinners, galleries)

  • Availability windows and boundaries (what you do / don’t do)

Not allowed in profiles

• Explicit content or sexualized language

• Hate speech, harassment, threats, or degrading language

• Claims you cannot substantiate (titles, affiliations, credentials)

• Impersonation or using someone else’s photos

• Contact details or attempts to move off-platform as the default (where platform rules restrict this)

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3) Verification standards (trust is engineered)

To protect members, the platform may require verification steps such as:

• Identity confirmation (government ID checks, where applicable)

• Liveness/selfie verification

• Basic background screening where permitted by law and policy

• Ongoing integrity checks for repeated reports or violations

Misrepresentation during verification is a zero-tolerance violation.

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4) Conduct standards (how you behave)

Quiet luxury isn’t performance—it’s discipline and respect.

Always required

• Consent-first communication: ask, don’t assume

• Clear boundaries: confirm expectations before meeting

• Punctuality and courtesy: respect time windows and event flow

• Discretion: no sharing of identities, screenshots, or private details

• No harassment: pressure, persistence after “no,” or intimidation is prohibited

Communication standards

• Keep messages respectful, direct, and non-explicit

• No insults, threats, manipulation, or degrading language

• No invasive questions (home address, private contacts, personal finances) unless mutually agreed and relevant

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5) Safety expectations (non-negotiables)

All members must follow baseline safety practices:

Meeting norms

• Meet in public or professionally staffed venues (hotel lobby, reputable restaurant, event venue)

• Agree on:

  • Location, time window, and end time

  • Dress code and event context

  • Transport plan (arrivals/departures should be independent by default)

Personal safety

• Do not pressure anyone to drink, use substances, or change plans

• If someone appears impaired, unsafe, or uncomfortable, the engagement must end

• Members must comply with local laws and venue security requirements

Privacy and security

• No recording (audio/video) or photography without explicit consent

• No location-tagging or public posting that reveals attendance or identity

• Do not share private communications outside the platform

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6) Confidentiality and NDAs

If an NDA is requested:

• It must be voluntary, clearly explained, and mutually agreed

• It must not be used to silence safety concerns, coercion, or illegal conduct

• Reporting safety issues to the platform (or relevant authorities) is always allowed

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7) Prohibited behavior (immediate enforcement risk)

The following can lead to removal and account restriction:

• Sexual solicitation or explicit offers/requests

• Coercion, threats, blackmail, extortion, or stalking

• Harassment, hate speech, discrimination, or doxxing

• Impersonation, fraud, or identity misrepresentation

• Attempting to bypass verification, moderation, or reporting systems

• Any illegal activity, including facilitating access to illegal substances or weapons

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8) Reporting and support

Members are encouraged to report:

• Boundary violations

• Harassment or intimidation

• Impersonation or fraud

• Safety concerns before, during, or after an engagement

Reports should include:

• The profile involved

• Date/time and brief description

• Screenshots/messages (where available and permitted)

False reporting to harm others is also a violation.

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9) Enforcement

Enforcement actions may include:

• Warning and education

• Temporary restriction

• Verification re-check

• Removal from the platform (with or without appeal eligibility)

Severity, repetition, and credibility of evidence determine outcomes.

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10) Standard of excellence (the culture)

This community is built on:

• Composure

• Consent

• Discretion

• Reliability

• Safety by design

Membership is a privilege—maintained through conduct.