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Kennedy Rapudo wins praise for his mature stance on co-parenting, explaining that he respects his stepson Gavin’s relationship with his biological father and doesn’t demand the title "Dad".

In a refreshing departure from the usual scripted drama of Kenyan reality TV stars, businessman Kennedy Rapudo has earned praise for his mature handling of blended family dynamics. The flamboyant entrepreneur has publicly addressed why his stepson, Gavin—child of socialite Amber Ray—does not refer to him as "Dad," sparking a vital conversation about co-parenting and respect.
The discourse erupted after a video surfaced of the family at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport (JKIA), showing a protective Rapudo guiding Amber Ray and Gavin. Netizens were quick to analyze the body language, prompting Rapudo to clarify the family's internal rules. In a candid interview, Rapudo stated firmly that he has no intention of replacing Gavin's biological father, who remains an active presence in the teenager's life.
"Gavin is a teenager with a father who is very much alive and present," Rapudo explained, cutting through the noise of online unsolicited advice. "It would be disrespectful and confusing for me to force the boy to call me 'Dad' when he knows exactly who his father is. We have a different understanding. He calls me 'Papa Africana' (referencing Rapudo and Amber's daughter), and I am perfectly happy with that."
This statement has been hailed by family counselors and fans alike as a textbook example of healthy stepparenting. In a culture where blended families are becoming common yet remain socially complex, Rapudo’s stance prioritizes the child’s emotional stability over the stepparent’s ego. He drew parallels with his own daughter from a previous relationship, noting that he would not expect her to call another man "Dad" while he is still fulfilling his parental duties.
The incident has turned what could have been a tabloid scandal into a teachable moment. "You cannot legislate love or titles," Rapudo observed. "Respect is earned. I take care of Gavin like my own blood, but I respect his lineage."
For the avid followers of Kenya’s "Instagram families," this was a sobering reminder that behind the filters and the flights to Dubai, real families are navigating real issues. Rapudo’s declaration isn’t just about a name; it’s about the integrity of the family unit, in whatever form it takes.
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